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.Saturn may betempted to demand too much from his partner.It may sometimes happen, especially with the conjunction, that Venus has a great deal to learn fromSaturn and when Venus is attracted to an older person, his greater experience may be the means ofsteadying the emotional responses of Venus and helping her to develop a sound all-round sense ofvalues.Sometimes Venus will develop affection for a Saturn person who for some reason does notreturn her love or whom she subsequently finds is inaccessible to her.When the planets are in adverse aspect or either is debilitated, Saturn may in some way be themeans of denying pleasures to the Venusian partner.The opposition can even prevent a friendshipforming, but if other contacts bring two people together, a relationship may exist in which Saturn isprepared to sacrifice love for the sake of financial gain and to take everything Venus is prepared togive without making any noticeable return.Saturn's lack of consideration or constant neglect mayeventually dampen the gaiety of Venus and exhaust the Venusian capacity for giving affection, whileSaturn may consider it his duty to adhere to certain rigid principles of behavior that make noconcession to his partner's special need for love and attention.Saturn may try to discourage any excessive show of feeling from the partner, who consequently feelsdenied a natural outlet for her emotions.Venus is always the one who suffers more, though Saturnmay feel ill-used by the less responsible or even frivolous attitude of his partner, who does notappreciate all the hard work being done to provide a firm foundation for the relationship.Saturn may have to carry a good deal of the responsibility in such a partnership and while a goodaspect between the two planets can signify a ready acceptance by Saturn of the burdens he mayhave to carry, the adverse aspects can bring about a situation where Saturn can begin to wonderwhether it is all worthwhile and Venus feels discouraged by what seems to be undeserved criticismfrom her partner, perhaps associating him with outside circumstances that may cramp her style andlimit her freedom.Venus/UranusThis contact frequently occurs between the horoscopes of marriage partners though it is not of itselfan ingredient which makes for permanency in the relationship.In a nativity the contact represents thecapacity for ecstasy.Occurring between two people of opposite sexes it can signify a sexuallystimulating relationship.Just as moments of ecstasy cannot be indefinitely prolonged, and suchmoments probably derive a great deal of their desirability because of their exciting contrast with moreprosaic experiences, so the Venus-Uranus contact is not one of the most stabilizing factors in arelationship.It tends to represent everything the Venus-Saturn partner-ship is not, so that life canbecome very interesting indeed when these two planets are working in combination.Uranus, according to Rodney Collin, rules the sex glands, which appears to confirm the exaltation ofUranus in Scorpio.Scorpio bears a seventh house relationship to Taurus, the negative sign of Venus,so the planetary contact can be a crucial one in sex relationships.Uranus can exert an electric fascination over Venus, who finds Uranus "extra special" and is intriguedby his originality of approach, independent way of doing things and ability to bring her new creativeinsights while Uranus is particularly susceptible to the charm and attractiveness of Venus, whoappears so desirable that he must possess her at all costs.Sometimes Venus may not appear torealize at first the extent of the attraction she holds for Uranus, and so she is able to view theassociation with greater detachment and exercise the greater control over the relationship.Uranuscan become infatuated with Venus, thus the romantic possibilities of this combination areconsiderable, although they do not necessarily make for a long term relationship, especially if bothpartners are not sufficiently mature at the time of their meeting.They may find it difficult to live on a permanent diet of excitement! The result is that one of thepartners, usually Uranus, may abruptly lose interest, especially when the physical charms of Venusgrow less attractive through familiarity or merely with the passing of time and it is worth payingattention to directions and transits as they affect the position of the two planets, in order to estimatewhen any danger periods may occur.The conjunction is a particularly compelling aspect, denoting a great deal of mutual fascination and alively interest in each other, though it is possible for tension to develop through the feeling that therelationship is "too good to last."Apart from the romantic possibilities, which will not be present between all individuals, the contactpromises to enrich the social life of each, and their cultural and creative activities [ Pobierz całość w formacie PDF ]